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Your other half is definitely out there, so read on for the best places to find love in the modern world, wherever you are in your life. The hardest, best thing about dating is that it has to be fun, casual, and spontaneous. It’s work to find a date, even when it’s done right. It’s hard enough to meet people when you’re in a certain niche—like a city, a job, or an age group—let alone if you’re in the middle of a life stage. Like teenagers? Move to a small town, or get a job. If you’re in your 30s, in a great relationship, having a kid, or have just settled down, you may think dating is just hard. Maybe it is, but in the same way giving up your favorite food is harder than giving up soda, dating has a certain intensity. “The key is finding that sweet spot of not being desperate, not being willing to do anything outlandish, not going too far, and not being totally selective,” says dating coach Dawn Daubenspeck. G/O Media may get a commission Subscribe and Get Your First Bag Free Promo Code AtlasCoffeeDay20 Your first step You’re going to be in this new world for a while, so it might as well be for good. That means, if you want to improve your chances, a conversation with a stranger is a good place to start. Now, it’s not unheard of to have a one-night stand if you are in a good place in your life (or even if you’re in a bad place), but if you want to get out of bad relationships or into a good one, a second date is probably not the way to go. For more tips on how to keep yourself safe and keep your personal information from getting into someone else’s hands, check out our guide to protecting your online dating profile. See it with your eyes A big part of dating is sharing an experience with someone. And this means a lot more if you have the chance to develop some chemistry with someone first, get to know the two of you, and establish a rapport. But, because of modern technology and the rise of websites that claim to find people for you, you’re going to have to put in a little more effort than your parents or grandparents did. This isn’t where you meet someone for the first time at a party or in the park. Meeting people like this is
Okay, so this isn’t going to be very scientific, but it’s based on years of experience, so it should be pretty reliable. It’s not exclusively for those in a relationship, but if it turns out you’re single, you’ll be able to use this knowledge to make your next date more successful. So, if you’re going on a first date, how do you make sure you get the result you want? Here’s a free, no-strings-attached guide. 1. Set Your Expectations It’s never a good idea to go on a date expecting anything in return. If you come across as needy, you’re setting yourself up for rejection, and if you seem like you’re expecting something, you’re just a jerk. On the other hand, if you’re expecting to get laid, you’re also setting yourself up for rejection. Any expectations in between are equally misguided. Good dates are very much a give and take and aren’t meant to be easy. If you’re looking for romance, you should come onto a date expecting to have a good time, only to find yourself being the recipient of a really good, not all that romantic date. If you’re still unhappy after the date, you don’t want to burn a bridge, so don’t be too disappointed. 2. Don’t Go Alone I’m a really big fan of going on a first date with a friend or co-worker. If it’s a date with someone you already know, introduce him or her to anyone else you’re interested in. You’ll get a better read on their personality, and you’ll be in a better position to help him or her if there’s trouble. If it’s a date with someone you don’t know that well, call your friend or co-worker and ask him or her to go with you. You can also choose to go on a date with both of your friends, which I recommend only if they’re really close friends who you’re sure won’t throw you under the bus for getting their sister or ex-boyfriend a second date. If you’ve got a friend who hasn’t come out yet, don’t go on a date with him or her until he or she’s comfortable with it, unless you’d like to be friends with only one friend. 3. Come Prepared Looking at you, Mr. Fancy. If you’re planning on going on a date with a guy who’s more dressed up

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